I knew something wasnt right. There was always something off. The love bombing blinded me from seeing all the signs. 6 months together, making plans to move forward with the relationship. The " I love yous"... and he had a girlfriend for 4 years. Finding out about that shattered everything i thought was true and real.
Last updated on:2025-10-08T01:20:04+05:30
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how did you find out about the 4-year girlfriend? was it something you noticed or did someone tell you?
it’s brutal, but leaning into the truth helps—journaling or even venting to a friend can make the heartbreak a little more bearable.
got caught up in love bombing too, only to find out my ex was juggling someone else. that betrayal hits different.
I’m really sorry you’re going through this.. every time you’ll think of him, remind yourself what he did. He is not worthy.
I just left, for another time. Because there was always something wrong too. confusion was the constant word in my head. Lots of love bombing, but also lots of things I that were confusing me. Eventually there was hiding my things in his flat.. I don’t want no more explanations.. I loved him to pieces.
I am so sorry as well. it really does hurt and the confusion of it all from the love bombing to the secrecy. not knowing through it all what was real and what was all an act