it’s been few days since I broke up. I broke up 3rd time and I’m done. I’m not going back, there’s been too many chances, even our therapy didn’t help because he’s been saying half truths there.. I realise so much more now. Gaslighting me for 2 years.
I kept busy from 6am to 2pm, I made sure I laughed with people at work. I’m sipping my coffee and I’m feeling a relief today..
Last updated on:2025-10-09T19:13:57+05:30
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wow, i can feel the weight lifting from your words. how are you handling the urges to check back in or replay memories?
how am I handling the urges to check back in? I replay his lies in my head. Especially the one when he gave me perfume samples and claimed he’s got them along with something else for my birthday.. there was no “something else”. He eventually said that was a lie, when I asked for a proof.
I’m assuming maybe there was something else, but for someone else too.
sounds like you’re finally breathing again. keep holding onto that small relief, journaling really helped me make sense of all the lies and manipulation
thank you, I do the same, it does help. I hope you’re alright.
i was with someone and realized the gaslighting after we finally split. that relief you’re feeling? it’s real and valid