It's been quite a while

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Somehow it feels easier to live with myself than with him. It's been a month only. I feel like I am cheating bcuz how did I overcome him this quick. don't people maul over it for years. and suddenly I am all fine. did i not love him enough even though I lost everything to him.
I don't even wish to think about him anymore it's tiring. Have i overcome him or am I just not accepting my feelings, am i running away from it..... I want this to be done for as quick as possible, I don't wish to face it again

I want to be so over him that even if I meet him again, i meet him as a friend without any hopes and with all smiles, without any after thought

Last updated on:2025-10-09T02:21:03+05:30

Comments (4)

Jimanni
Jimanni 5 mths ago

do you think maybe you’ve just reached the “done being tired” stage? like not over him yet, but over hurting about him?

Bunnylobe
Bunnylobe 5 mths ago

sometimes healing doesn’t look dramatic. it’s not always tears and chaos. sometimes it’s quiet acceptance, even if it feels weird. let the peace stay — don’t guilt yourself for feeling better.

zombieboy
zombieboy 5 mths ago

after my breakup i went from crying daily to suddenly feeling… nothing. like my heart just shut off. i thought i was cold, but i think it was just my brain protecting me.

WildSun457
WildSun457 5 mths ago

accept that you are better without him. you are not cheating. you are thinking about you first.
sometimes the breakups are a blessing in disguise