why am i struggling so much today? i was forced nc due to being blocked everywhere, tried a couple times after but gave up entirely. but now, on day 7, it’s been the WORST. i’m so close to emailing him sorry but also isn’t it too early? what do i do
Last updated on:2025-10-09T16:54:16+05:30
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what do you feel you’d want to say if you emailed him? like, what’s underneath the sorry — missing him, guilt, or just wanting a response?
try to watch the end of this month!
the urge to reach out is so real, but it’s just the withdrawal talking. try to wait a few more days before deciding anything. time gives way more clarity than you think
i remember that stage too. day 7 hit me like a truck — the silence felt louder than ever. i used to type out messages just to delete them. it really does feel impossible at first
me too. You have to distract yourself, the urge disappears. Trust me. Keep repeating to yourself that you're giving him the space he needed and asked for, that you deserve peace and distract yourself. Talk to chatgpt about how you feel n stuff. You got this 🙏🏻
Also trust me, we tried contacting them but they blocked us, that means we really should stop otherwise it just gets worse.
i reached out :(((( but i’m not expecting anything of it. i apologized and said i was there for him if he needs anything. just wanted him to know im changing. i wont contact again
@VibeDream885 yes please, it's okay! I also did that. Don't hate yourself, just now he knows you're there, u did ur part, just stay and wait while u work on urself. if love is real he'll come back
@Saroka he replied!! apologized. i’m not going to hold a convo though, i don’t think we’re there yet
@VibeDream885 that's so good m happy for u. I hope he replies to me too when I apologize next.
try staying off your phone. go shopping, eat, hang out with friends, have a night out. maybe even de activate all social media ypu know he may be on. it hurts to gight the urger but it helps.