why is it that people who cheat and move on to new person and more happier and why the person who got cheated suffers
Last updated on:2025-10-10T02:13:02+05:30
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why is it that people who cheat and move on to new person and more happier and why the person who got cheated suffers
Last updated on:2025-10-10T02:13:02+05:30
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have you been able to talk about it with someone you trust? sometimes just getting it out helps a little.
i learned that their happiness isn’t about you. focus on your healing, even if it feels slow, it’s the only thing you control
my ex cheated and moved on fast, and i was stuck replaying everything in my head for months 😭 it’s so unfair.
they suppress feelings, that s all. i met my ex when he was out 3 weeks basically from his past relationship.yes redflag.yes i should have walked away but i overlooked it...aaaanyway: obviously he was not over it, but he had 2 choices: a) grief, and deal with the hard feelings and understand his emotions b) jump into a new thing and distract himself (plus bonus sex)....
while i dated him i saw the best advice as a comment under a " how to date an avoidant video": STOP DATING AVOIDANTS!!
Mine was emotional infidelity. The other person was just a “friend”, but became more days after the breakup. This was finally admitted to me.
I was completely blindsided and discarded. The lack of closure from my former partner has been one of the hardest things to accept.
thats sad to hear. Mine was also same case without closure. we were in relationship for 3 years and I went for work purpose to other country for 3 months first 2 months he was good and all off sudden started avoiding me. when I came here I got to know he is getting married he never gave me a closure. unfortunately he works in same team and I have to see how happy he is and how he is enjoying and how quickly he moved on and what he does and how much he love his wife. it literally kills me.
@ByteWave435 Wow. I am so sorry!
I think it’s because the person who cheated is emotionally immature and distracting themselves enough to avoid the pain. The person who allows themselves to grieve and sit with the pain will be stronger and better equipped for successful relationships in the future.
As someone who is 2 months out of a 17 year relationship, I am currently having to remind myself of this everyday. The pain that I feel will make me stronger, it is allowing me to learn from this experience, it is preparing me for something better.
mine was just 3 year relationship. can't imagine what you must be going through. Hopefully it gets better