so I couldnt resist and wanted to check his ig account. Now its private. i feel a little down. now we really have no intersection between us. I eliminated his numbers from my Phone and I never reach out. i just wanted to see his shared posts to remind me how he has moved on. its been more than a month. i feel a lingering sadness. he replaced me after 2 weeks. But even in my sadness when I saw how happy he was and not at all concerned about my absence, I didnt feel this void.
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that “void” you mentioned — do you think it’s more about missing him, or missing the version of yourself that existed when you were together?
I think its the life I invisioned myself living with him. its a big void because I never had such expectations before :(
honestly, it’s okay that you looked. you’re human. but try not to beat yourself up for it — every time you resist that urge, you’ll get a little stronger.
Lean about the people Delete all the stuff.if he repalce you let them be..Just find yourself now .stop crying..enjoy everything be alone.go alone find beauty of being alone.Just heal ..Dont expect them anything ..just heal girl.you can do it..if you thinking if him write a journal but if you are healing slowly ..throw that journal away ..and live yourself find yourself be happy do whatever you want..♥️♥️♥️♥️💪
remember checking my ex’s page and seeing how “happy” he looked while i was still a mess. that gut punch feeling… yeah, i feel this in my bones