I was seeing a guy from work for a while and I had a huge crush on him. I genuinely liked him and found him really attractive. But looking back he never treated me well. He only showed interest or affection when he was in the mood or when I started pulling away which I now realize was just a manipulation tactic.
Eventually I discovered he was giving his time and attention to other women. So I blocked him and cut off contact. He didn’ care at all never asked why never reached out. He just moved on to someone else without hesitation.
Honestly I don’t think he was ever truly attracted to me. Whenever I asked about how he felt or brought up anything intimate his responses were always lukewarm. I really wanted to be with him and part of me still does but his actions have made it clear he was never genuinely interested.
Even before we started seeing each other he never flirted with me. But he openly talks about other women at work he finds attractive and flirts with them which makes me feel like he never saw me that way. He probably just knew I liked him and took advantage of that.
I’m heartbroken. And honestly I’m angry. I feel used and deeply hurt.
Last updated on:2025-10-09T16:09:03+05:30
Comments (3)
It's really sad to use people like this. The heart is fragile. Fortunately, sex makes you forget the wounds
Sorry that happened. Do NOT backslide. You are no one’s backup option
I’m sorry to hear that, but in my opinion you shouldn’t chase after anyone who doesn’t actively set you as a priority. If they are playing games with multiple other girls while talking to you, he will not change his actions for you. If you need someone to talk to, you are welcome to dm me and I’d be happy to listen.