I don’t understand why I’m crying over someone I only met a month ago. She’s the first person I’ve genuinely liked in over a year and it’s not even that I was deeply attached or in love. But she was truly amazing kind grounded and emotionally healthy. And now that it’s over I feel this deep sense of loss like someone really important has been taken from my life. It hurts more than I expected.
Last updated on:2025-10-09T20:27:03+05:30
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sometimes it’s not the length of the connection, it’s the quality. maybe just let yourself feel it for a bit instead of fighting it. the body grieves safety, not just people.
do you think it’s more about her specifically, or about what she made you feel after so long without that kind of connection?
i once cried over a girl i barely dated too. it wasn’t about the time, it was about how safe she felt. losing that kind of energy just hits different
it’s because you found a special connection even if it isn’t love. it’s ok to feel this way. a connection is so important but I promise you will find that connection with someone again