its been the most time i dont see her activity(with stalking, messages and etc.) i feel like if we lost this subtle contact through pain and missing each other, she will slip out of my hands forever and there wont be her in my life forever. Maybe she is getting over me or maybe im getting over with her i dont know but i feel odd. i dont wanna lose her and my only connection to her is pain of this break up. i dont wanna text her cuz if she is healing this will make her suffer more. what to do now im stuck
Last updated on:2025-10-12T18:59:16+05:30
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this part’s the hardest. the quiet. but sometimes doing nothing is the kindest thing — for both of you. the distance that hurts now is also what helps you heal later.
thank you. she, her voice, her expressions are my medicines, but I try to stay away for her to heal. Time will decide our future I guess.
the silence meant she was slipping away and i couldn’t do anything. that weird mix of missing someone and trying not to hurt them more... it’s brutal
we have to do the best for our loved ones.
now just calm urself, u also need space to figure out whats wrong, why u guys breaking up
Believe me, I've just been in this situation. No matter how hard you try, if only one of you is fighting to fix this relationship, it won't work. This girl was my best friend who became my girlfriend, I trusted her but she gave up on me and preferred another guy a few weeks after we broke up. I really cared for her and used to only blaming myself for it. I just lost my self respect while trying to work on it, i hope u dont lose yours. I'm not telling you to give up, just think clearly before u did something. Sometimes people is not as nice as it seems.
she is the one i dont think i deserve to heal before her. on the other hand the possibility of her healing with another guy kills me inside. im trapped in this.
also i support you bro. i hope you heal soon and find your own peace