she randomly blocked me on WhatsApp 11 days into no contact . I don’t get the point in blocking someone on messaging apps when they aren’t even messaging you??
Last updated on:2025-10-13T05:24:03+05:30
she randomly blocked me on WhatsApp 11 days into no contact . I don’t get the point in blocking someone on messaging apps when they aren’t even messaging you??
Last updated on:2025-10-13T05:24:03+05:30
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do you think she blocked you out of frustration, or was it more like she needed space for herself?
to be honest it happened right after my buddy posted a snap I was tagged in and I had blocked her on snap. so I’m assuming when she saw the tag and couldn’t click on my name she realized I blocked her then blocked me on WhatsApp maybe as a fuck you back? sort of thing? I can’t say for sure. I jus think it was weird timing because it was right after my friend tagged me in snap
sometimes it’s less about you and more about their way of coping. i found journaling helped me not spiral over it
yeah it really makes you feel like shit
my ex blocked me out of nowhere too and it just felt like a punch in the gut. same confusion, same hurt.
sometimes I wonder if it’s because she’s seeing someone new but if I’m not even reaching out I don’t get the point
It can be the other way around : maybe she doesn't want you to message her because she knows you could be tempted to do so...
Just out of curiosity : how do you know she blocked you if you didn't try to message her ?
well on WhatsApp there’s tell tale signs someone’s blocked you without messaging them. like their name will disappear and it’ll just be a number, or their contact picture will go away. and both happened
honestly, I'm the one who blocked my ex on absolutely everything, but not for him, but for myself, because I recognized my pattern of behavior so that during break-ups, I'm the one who somehow reach out. whether with a message, whether with some of our pictures, videos on statuses, profile pictures, etc., in this way I made it as difficult as possible for myself to avoid temptation.
if u weren’t bothering her on it she probably blocked you cause she still cares and is finding a way to stop herself from reaching out to u.
it can give someone a sense of being in control when they feel they no longer have it
its tempting to text someone you were once so close to. Maybe she feels in order to move on she had to prevent herself from seeing any contact of yours.