good morning family.
So after day 10 of no contact he called me using someone's phone and get asked if we can still meet and fix things.I loved him honestly so I was like okay let me go and hear what he has to say.
on that particular moment he admitted that he slept with a certain girl but he did not know that she was a prostitute.I asked him couple of times about this girl and he lied,we were even telling each other gusts about her with my shoulders up I was telling my friends that my boyfriend cannever date such girl but guys I was wrong it's like all this time they were in a relationship.
We good now but the girl is just at the back of my head.He lied and betrayed my trust today is day 3 since we talked.I didn't react when I was with him because I promised him that I'm not going to freakout if he says the truth.So I'm lost what do I do now?
should I end the relationship again? should I call and talk with him about it? or whatđ„ș
Last updated on:2025-10-14T00:54:26+05:30
Comments (10)
how do you feel being with him now? do you honestly feel safe and respected, or is the betrayal still eating at you?
The betrayal is eating me honestly and right now we ain't cool he said I'm so attached to the names that are given to people when they are together like my man and boyfriend thingđ
right now I just came and continue my ni contact thing
take your time. you donât need to decide immediately. trust is broken and itâs okay to pause and figure out what you need first
i was cheated on too, found out later she lied about someone, and even months after i kept replaying it in my head. it never really âgoes awayâ fast.
my advice is to move on. that moment when he chose to be intimate with someone else should be a huge ick to you. imagine the opposite situation, if you slept with someone after 10 days, would he even think about making up with you? of course not. and if you make up, you will always have in your mind that he kissed, touched, did everything with someone else that he did with you and there is no going back. a real man reflects after a breakup, and does not immediately jump into someone else's bed under the pretext that he wanted to get over you. he is a person who returns for validation and an ego boost because you are his safe zone, he knows that you will always accept him but you have to be decisive and tell him NO!
Iâm in kind of same situation as her, and after a lot of time making up, i had exact same feeling that u r talking. U r right about that, reading your comment gives me so much strength and emphasize. Thank u, have a great day!
thank you sisâ€ïž
I used to be in this situation when i saw my ex boygriend being with other girl and somehow we talk, he told me that those girls just for him to get over me, he also admitted that he kissed those girls, but itâs just for fun and get over me. I somehow love him so I already accepted that and we got back. But i knew deep down he want me and also other girls too. I just think that when men already forgot us and move to to other girls in few weeks, they already lose the love for us and even getting back, the love is also different
iâm sorry to hear that, it seems that you still love him a lot, even u ask people question, u still go back to him anyway. But for long run, u should answer this question, do u think he worth it for you to try when he was with other girl just after 10 days u guys not talking?
thank you ma'am