it's been two days since I left the guy but today being the third I feel like I'm outgrowing him and proud of myself to who I'm becoming is this normal like I'm I on the right track....
Last updated on:2025-10-13T09:12:30+05:30
I'm i doing ok?
it's been two days since I left the guy but today being the third I feel like I'm outgrowing him and proud of myself to who I'm becoming is this normal like I'm I on the right track....
Last updated on:2025-10-13T09:12:30+05:30
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i’m curious, what’s one thing you’ve noticed about yourself since leaving him? sometimes naming it makes the progress feel real
I am really peaceful with myself like I am not worried all the time like I am comfortable with my life and whatever I choose to do
that’s totally normal! give yourself credit, keep focusing on you, and trust that this space is helping you heal and grow
i felt the same around day three of NC 😭 it’s wild how quickly you start noticing your own growth when you step away
Emotions will hit in waves, rising and falling, sometimes feeling better, sometimes worse. and it is normal. moving along you're gonna be on top
yeah true
well, yes, considering the dynamic, your reaction is totally normal ! Move on and never ever contact him again !
That's what I'm doing and it's working for me
thanks though
Well, if you were the one who ended it, moving on usually comes a bit easier…
You had your reasons, and you knew it was the right thing to do. So yeah, it’s completely normal—been there, done that, and you’ll be fine.
I left him after we had given each other a time of no contact so during that period of no contact is the time I sawa that this guy has never loved me I've been with him for two years he was just using me as his shield yk like helping him with things building him and even protecting him from his friends who were like him he has manipulated me for 2years. I came to realize that everything he used to tell was lies and I had poured my heart into this relationship but I don't regret that because I was pure and I loved him and he was not even my type because we had a very huge difference between us the fact that ik that and I stayed yk but he used me for show off to show people how he had a beautiful girlfriend a high standard girlfriend who goes to this restaurant and he wasn't funding all that sometimes yk like it's alot