if any of you saw my last post, I had said that he broke no contact and came up to me after school and asked if I wanted to talk. I had just said not really and walked away. And I haven't run into him at school since. But I guess I'm just kind of getting nervous, because what if he doesnt stop trying to talk to me. I mean he only came up to me, when no one else was around, but it could still happen again. so I just don't really know what to do. And I don't know why but part of me kind of wants to have the conversation with him, whether it's because I want to hear his side ir if it's just because I want to be able to tell him what he did to me. But I know it's better to just let it go and he doesnt deserve my time to explain himself or whatever, but for some reason I kind of want to hear it even tho know it'll probably just make me even more mad at him. Idk, I'm just so confused. out Like I want him to hurt like how he hurt me and for him to understand how badly he treated me, yet everything is telling me that it's not worth it.
Last updated on:2025-10-13T10:40:18+05:30
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have you thought about what you’d want to get out of that talk? sometimes figuring that out helps decide if it’s worth it.
honestly I think I just want to hear what he has to say, if he even has anything. not because something he could say would convince me to go back to him. I don't know, it's just he denied me closure when I asked for it. he had ignored my texts all day and then he sends me a msg in the middle of the night saying he thinks we should break up and when I tried to talk to him about it he just ignored me. so I guess I either just want to hear something that'll help me move on completely or I just want to do what he did to me: deny any time to explain their side. sorry if that doesn't really make sense, Im still trying to make it make sense in my head.
i’ve learned letting go without confrontation is hard but freeing. writing down what you’d say sometimes helps release that anger safely.
yeah I did that more in the beginning after the breakup and I was doing good but I guess now that he came up to me after all this time, everything is just resurfacing
ugh i feel this so much 😭 i had the same thing happen. part of me wanted to confront him, part knew it’d just hurt me more. it’s so confusing.