And when I was ready to say I am good without him, I discovered that he blocked me from social. (I was not following him but I was checking in secret his social and today I couldn't find him. So I told my best friend and she could see his profile.) That hurt but I don't know why? He blocked me because he secretly checking me too and couldn't do it anymore or he found out that I was checking on him (I doubt it because I was careful not to leave any trails leading to me)
But who knows?
I am currently on day 40+ but I feel like I am on day one again.
Last updated on:2025-10-14T10:06:14+05:30
Comments (10)
do you think seeing his profile again would actually make you feel better, or just reopen the wound a bit more?
I don't know. I just want to check on him sometimes just to know if his doing well (I want him to be happy even without me
that kind of setback always stings. honestly, try not to spiral into “why.” people block for all sorts of reasons, and it rarely has anything to do with your worth.
i was 2 months into no contact and thought i was fine till i saw i was blocked too. it hit me harder than i expected 😮💨 it’s like grief all over again.
tbh. if mine had blocked me id probably have saved myself alot of embarrassment by now. consider it a blessing. a painful one but one none the less. hang in there.
The fact you’ve gone over a month is a massive achievement. Don’t let this ruin it… it’ll help you in the long run not having him on socials
Yeah but I want to know why he blocked me after a month, what's the reason
@vaiakoss that makes sense. my guess is he probably was checking your page frequently and decided that he needed to stop in order to move on
@vaiakoss he blocked you because he can’t move on could be he is avoidant and finally started processing the loss so blocked u to him himself move on. if he didn’t care about u he wouldn’t have blocked u
@Lilith it's wrong that now I want to break the no contact?