guys can i asked u smth, she want me to be her friends again cause she's tired doing relationship with me (i'm a plain guy and never been in a relationship) so its break her cause she feels i never there for her when we are couple. rn she's having other guy that probably she likes (not couple yet), did i still have a chance in a long run if i'm there for her.
Last updated on:2025-10-14T02:37:02+05:30
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are you sure she wants friendship, or is it just a way to keep you close while exploring someone else? curious how she’s feeling too
I believe men struggle a lot more with just being friends. Focus on yourself and walk away
i get the feeling, but sometimes stepping back and letting her grow is better than trying to force a long-term chance. focus on yourself too
😭 my ex wanted space too and i thought being “there” later would fix things… honestly it just took me time to realize some things don’t come back.
Im in a similar situation and I believe that at some point you realize just how little respect/consideration she has for you. It doesn't matter how good of a relationship it was...just take the time to ignore her and you will see how much easier it becomes over time.
so ive got a chance to deeptalk again with her, probably she agreed cause shes comfortable with this other guy and dont want me to presure her emotionally in her head, is it a good idea to wait for the right time and ask for a second chance nicely since its just a miscommunication in both side
@DreamNJoy781 my intention is i want to tell her i cant be in a friendzone and i deserved to get a second chance since its no ones fault, i want to improve myself with you, but for now we dont need to imediately be in a relationship
@DreamNJoy781 no, don't even consider asking for a second chance and as she has informed you she is comfortable with this other guy. Take time for you and focus on yourself. Its going to be hard but you have to basically ignore her existence, remove her access to you, think about your future and your future alone.
don't allow yourself to be friend with her. it will hurt you.
definitely not being a friend or you’ll keep being painful. The only way is stop connecting
Don’t be her friend if she’s entertaining other boys. leave her alone, if she loves you and when you’re gone she’ll eventually realise you are who she wants