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back to be a friends

guys can i asked u smth, she want me to be her friends again cause she's tired doing relationship with me (i'm a plain guy and never been in a relationship) so its break her cause she feels i never there for her when we are couple. rn she's having other guy that probably she likes (not couple yet), did i still have a chance in a long run if i'm there for her.

Comments (6)

blazebo
blazebo 57 mins ago

i get the feeling, but sometimes stepping back and letting her grow is better than trying to force a long-term chance. focus on yourself too

giggisa
giggisa 4 hrs ago

😭 my ex wanted space too and i thought being ā€œthereā€ later would fix things… honestly it just took me time to realize some things don’t come back.

SweetMoods151
SweetMoods151 9 hrs ago

Im in a similar situation and I believe that at some point you realize just how little respect/consideration she has for you. It doesn't matter how good of a relationship it was...just take the time to ignore her and you will see how much easier it becomes over time.

DreamNJoy781
DreamNJoy781 9 hrs ago

so ive got a chance to deeptalk again with her, probably she agreed cause shes comfortable with this other guy and dont want me to presure her emotionally in her head, is it a good idea to wait for the right time and ask for a second chance nicely since its just a miscommunication in both side

DreamNJoy781
DreamNJoy781 9 hrs ago

@DreamNJoy781 my intention is i want to tell her i cant be in a friendzone and i deserved to get a second chance since its no ones fault, i want to improve myself with you, but for now we dont need to imediately be in a relationship

StayWild835
StayWild835 19 hrs ago

don't allow yourself to be friend with her. it will hurt you.

CrumbMo217
CrumbMo217 19 hrs ago

definitely not being a friend or you’ll keep being painful. The only way is stop connecting

happy9
happy9 20 hrs ago

Don’t be her friend if she’s entertaining other boys. leave her alone, if she loves you and when you’re gone she’ll eventually realise you are who she wants