Does love at first sight, even after talking for weeks almost nonstop, exist? I know people say it's infatuation, but in very in tune with my feelings and emotions, I've checked in with myself over and over and it just felt...real, as scary and wierd as it sounds. I know he felt the same way, but I had an anxious spell, he disappeared, and I'm gutted.
Last updated on:2025-10-14T03:46:06+05:30
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i’m curious… did you get a sense why he pulled away, or was it just sudden ghosting?
I overtexted, and then I spiraled and did it more. But, this all comes after us talking nonstop for a while, all day, everyday. He knew I dealt with anxiety, but when it hit couldn't seem to understand or support like he said he would. The worst of it was I was overcommunicating, but saying only good things. The silence made it even worse. I couldn't stop apologizing and trying to fix it. He's probably spooked and turned off, but it's just not how I ever imagined he'd react to me having a rough day, and then when he pulled back, it became harder. I dug myself a hole. I don't know, I go back and further between blaming myself, but also being disappointed he isn't the person he claimed to be. maybe he'll come back around with time. But, I don't really expect much now. I just wish he'd discuss it with me and at least give me closure. The connection on every level was unreal and special and unique.
that gut feeling is intense. try journaling what you felt and why — it helped me process when someone disappeared out of nowhere.
i feel this so much 😭 i had this exact vibe with someone and it hit HARD, then he just… vanished. it left me spinning for months 💔