I loved him for almost eight months.Maybe more.Don't ask how a person can fall in love with a man who always passes by at the same time in the morning and only looks at him, I did.He looked me and I was already enchanted. Even if there was a place to go quickly,I didn't get on the bus before I see him.I fought hard to get to know him. He appeared to me in a random cafe at the most impossible time. Now I thought it was a sign from fate. And I was able to find him thanks to his last license plate. I can't even describe the excitement and the pounding of my heart on the evening I found him...But he said he had someone else in mind. Then I said “I wouldn't come between you.” But then he said he wanted to be where he seeing value.He gave me his number on the first night. The conversation was going very well. Later on, he started to text back late. I told him that “if you don't want to talk to me,you can tell me” and he said he would talk to me about this when he was available.I said I was waiting, but he never responded to my message. He unfollowed me on social media last and when I couldn't stand it and asked him why he did that, he said, "I already told you that I am waiting for someone." Then he didn't get back to what I said, even if he saw it. I was always looking at his account because it was open.Days passed. The thought of that person he mentioned returning was scaring me a lot. And this morning, I was afraid It happened to me. When I woke up and checked his account as usual, I saw that he made his account private. I sent him a message and realized that they were together. I was only a two-week conversation process for the man whose name I had been dying to learn for months. I don't want to give up on him.I love him very much. But I don't know how long I can last like this. I have been treated very unfairly.Part of me still wants to wait for him.The thought of falling in love with anyone other than him is terrifying. I feel like I have consumed all my love and pure feelings in him.
Last updated on:2025-10-14T12:03:03+05:30
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can i ask… have you tried giving yourself space from checking his accounts? maybe stepping back could help your heart breathe a bit.
Yes, I did that, I even deleted my own social media for stop myself doing that..
i know it’s tempting to wait for him, but your feelings deserve someone who actually chooses YOU. it’s okay to grieve him, but don’t let him hold your heart hostage. 💔
my ex called me and I don't know if I should give him a chance during this time
i once fell for someone over months too, watching him from afar, giving all my heart… only to realize he wasn’t ever really available. it HURT
And the fact that he left after giving hope makes it even worse