Is it wrong to reach out? Am on day 129, and haven't contacted him. He didn't block me and didn't either.
I have moved on, and hope has, but will it be great to reach out out of care and say "hi"?
Last updated on:2025-10-15T03:57:02+05:30
Comments (6)
what’s your main goal with saying hi? just checking in, or hoping for a response? that can really guide if it’s worth it
if you’ve truly moved on, reaching out might reopen old feelings for both. sometimes the kindest thing is just sending good vibes silently
i was on days of no contact and debated texting too… ended up waiting and it actually helped me heal more
I have the same thoughts here and there… But it‘s probably best to not do it. Maybe set yourself a goal - like 200 days no contact and then think about it again but even then you‘ve come so far that you might just set yourself a bigger goal and so on :)
it wont be. if he wanted to he would. if you say anything he will know he has access to you without consequences
YESSSS! DON'T WASTE THE 129 DAYS DARLING, YOUR ON THAT POSITION HAD A BETTER VERSION OF YOU