last time i wrote here i was at day 47 and now i‘m at day 67… 20 days have passed and it is getting better. i do still think about him almost everyday if not more but it’s less painful, less consuming and it’s not affecting my mood as much anymore. it’s a little sting in my heart that stops immediately i think about something else. it’s so weird because the memories are still there but he is fading… his face, his voice, his touch… it’s all just a blur in my mind which is good i think but at the same time even though the memory is blurry it still stings, it still hurts and there is still some hope if „remeeting“ and „rebonding“. of finding each other again some time - even though i‘m actually convinced that we were just a lesson to each other and not meant to be…
Last updated on:2025-10-16T10:29:18+05:30
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it sounds like you’ve accepted that it was a lesson — do you feel peace in that thought yet, or does it still ache sometimes?
Yes i did but it still hurts from time to time… I guess that’s part of the whole process
you’re doing better than you think. that blurry feeling means you’re slowly reclaiming your mind and your peace. the hope might linger a bit, but it softens with time, promise
i felt this so deep. i remember when my ex’s face started to fade from my memory too — it was such a weird mix of relief and sadness. like healing but grieving at the same time
Yess exactly thiss!!
healing is just too hard especially with you choosing to let go
That is true but when you were fighting for so long you have to start fighting for yourself and let go… And once you start noticing those small achievements you will feel motivated enough to keep going :)
@melinamaria true im on day 3 of no contact today how about you? its not easy but i gotta do this for me
aww, thank you for inspired me that!❤️🩹
sometimes we are given relationships as a lesson. I’m on day 5 and your message has really helped me to carry on. I’m not expecting miracles but the fact you’ve said you can see a positive change, it’s really motivating. You’re doing an amazing job, can’t wait to see how you are on day 100!
I‘m glad that my healing journey has helped and motivated you! And i know even though sometimes we don‘t want to hear or believe it - it does get better! And i have to say your message motivated me as well to keep going :)