Tell me your opinion... Do you send Happy Birthday to your ex for their birthday or not?
Last updated on:2025-10-17T22:08:30+05:30
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Tell me your opinion... Do you send Happy Birthday to your ex for their birthday or not?
Last updated on:2025-10-17T22:08:30+05:30
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no, I won't
depends on where you’re at tbh — do you still have feelings for them or is it more about being polite?
I still have feelings for him. so it's a no for me.
if you’re still healing, don’t. it just reopens stuff. but if you’re genuinely over it and it’s out of kindness, then sure. just make sure it’s not coming from hope.
If he told you, tell him too
Listen to this now, we broke up one day before my birthday, so he was also a little 'obligated' to wish me.
@WildHug913 do not cause he knew it was ur special day fire he decided to break up with u
@letitgo_user I was the one who broke up with him😂
it will be next year. so I will see how I am feeling by then. probably I will send a happy birthday like a friend.
in my opinion there is no reason. unless you have friendly thoughts for her/him anymore.
@WildHug913 yes I will do it if I still care, but as a friend. also my birthday is two weeks before his. so I’ll see if I get a message too.
@WildSun457 I still have feelings for him so it's a no for me.. I wish he would text you ✌️
I do. just because I’m such a firm believer in you never know when it’s someone’s last day. and jus because they fucked you over or whatever you shouldn’t stop being a good person because of that. when I told my ex happy birthday it was more for me then her
in my case it's wrong sending a message because in my last message I told him that it's the last time I would text him and this way it will look like I don't keep the boundaries I set.
nope
you shouldn't the best thing to do is forget abt it. (I still do tho...)
yeah , you have to prioritize your logic..
nah i stopped doing that after my last breakup. i used to feel guilty if i didn’t text him, but honestly… silence said more than any “happy birthday” ever could
Sometimes you think that you spent some time with this person, so from a human perspective, you should send something but you are totally right
I think it differs compared to how you ended things. I personally wouldn't, why the need? do you hope that it would spark a conversation? if you don't talk anyway or are no contact I don't think you should
Deep down, yes, maybe that's what I'm hoping for, but in our last communication, I told him that it was the last time we would speak, so maybe it's not appropriate to message him.
@WildHug913 then I wouldn't. If you already sat that big of an end to your contact, it would be out of context to wish him Happy Birthday
idk but can I?
it depends how it ends