I think I'm moving on. I still think about him a few times a day but not in an yearning way just with disgust and madness about how a person could do me dirty like that and think they got it all right. we where part of the same friend group but he was the only guy so they kinda cut him out but I am the newest addition to the group so they still text a little when he texts first but they always tell me when he does and I know they're on my side. When he texts especially one of my friends he always text out of the blue with how good he's doing and I'm pretty sure it's cuz he knows she would tell me what he texts her. But it doesn't bother me anymore! or it bothers me in a way where I think he's pathetic, annoying and weird đ I've been casually talking/snapping with another guy for the last 2-3 weeks and we've bring vibing pretty good! we've been talking about meeting soon but last night while I was stalking someone on insta (the girls that get it, get it) I saw that he is following two of my ex's close friends and I remember my ex talking about a "friend" with his name, im starting to think that he is part of my ex's other friend group, they never talk one to one but have a lot of common friends and have seen each other at bigger Hangouts and birthday parties. If it is him I don't think he knows I'm my ex's ex but it just so classic?!
I haven't made a post here before so this is just kinds rambling haha but thank you if you read this whole thing, would love to hear your thoughts!!
Last updated on:2025-10-16T03:41:12+05:30
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do you think it would change anything for you if he did know youâre his friendâs ex? or are you just curious about how small the world really is
it doesn't matter now, found out he has a girlfriend đ he said he saw our conversations as friendly, he was definitely flirting tho. but it's kinds refreshing that it didn't have much effect on me
itâs okay to keep talking to that new guy, just move slow. the universe has a funny way of circling people around, but if it feels light and easy, let it be that.
found out he has a girlfriend and didn't see our whole thing as flirting just friendly đ He was definitely flirting no doubt! but I saw that as a sign to stay away from guys for a while haha
my ex also tried that âlook how great iâm doingâ crap through mutual friends it used to sting, but once disgust replaces longing, thatâs when you really start healing. you sound like youâre right there already
yeah it really did use to hurt like hell but now I just laugh at it, almost out of pity đ
it looks like you are moving on by opening yourself fo talk to other people and hanging our with friends.