I’ve never really been anyone’s first choice when it comes to relationships and after 36 years

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I’ve never really been anyone’s first choice when it comes to relationships and after 36 years I’ve come to terms with that. I wasn’t actively looking for love.
Then I met this woman at a dinner party and out of nowhere she told everyone we were dating. I was stunned especially when she asked me to take her out that weekend. It was surreal and honestly kind of beautiful.
For a few weeks we were inseparable. It felt effortless and real. But slowly we started seeing less of each other and then she ended things. No warning. I was completely blindsided. It felt like the ground disappeared beneath me.
It only lasted eight weeks so I keep asking myself why does it hurt this much? There was no drama no betrayal no guilt. I gave it my all and I wouldn’t change a thing.

Last updated on:2025-10-15T20:46:03+05:30

Comments (3)

Kiilavio21
Kiilavio21 5 mths ago

maybe she found you needy…
have you reflected your actions with her?
need to date more women. don’t be negative about yourself, women can sense that miles away

RominiaPablo
RominiaPablo 5 mths ago

How did she explain the breakup? What was her reason?

tommato
tommato 5 mths ago

Bro. Relax. You probably dodged a bullet. Now you have some dating experience under your belt. You have to get back out there!