my ex is trying to make is seem like our breakup was my fault, she suddenly hates me and wishes she never met me or anything like that, when we both know that the reason our relationship ended was because of how bad she was treating me. now shes out there saying that shes gonna start talking to other girls and she even said im exactly like her first ex? (who she btw hates the most in her life and who was treating her really badly) how do i stop being so sensitive about it? cause everytime i see something like that it hurts me again and i dont want to care anymore since i know i didnt treat her like she makes it seem i did. i love her still cause well i cant stop loving someone in just a week like she did.
Last updated on:2025-10-16T23:18:37+05:30
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when you see her saying those things, do you notice it’s the jealousy or the betrayal that stings more?
both honestly, i feel bad cause she promised its always gonna be me and seeing her move on so fast feels like a betrayal. but im also jealous cause now im not the only one she can love and care for?
it’s okay to feel hurt. i found journaling my feelings or just venting to friends helped me not internalize her words as truth
i’ve been there 😭 my ex twisted our breakup too, made it feel like it was all my fault… seeing her move on while I’m still stuck SUCKED.
for some people it’s easier to put all the blame on someone else. they don’t recognize their own faults. it happened to me too. at first the said he hated me. but a few weeks later on our last conversation he said he didn’t hate me but still doesn’t want to be with me.
give her time to reflect. maybe she will continue with ene resentment but in your heart you know what is real
It’s just like my story. My ex posted on social media making it seem like I broke up with him because he doesn’t have money. But the truth is, I just wanted his effort. I talked to him honestly about it and then blocked him, so he gave up. Sometimes they know the truth, but they just don’t want to accept it, so it’s hard to move on from that.
do you think they're just doing that cause they cant take any accountability for their actions and its actually easier to blame the other person and make it seem like they're evil? is that something that makes is easier for them to move on?
@dstryone Yes, of course. Maybe they can’t face the truth that they messed up, so they do things like that. But trust me, one day they’ll realize what they’ve lost. For now, just stay calm and watch.