lol he was ghosting me since monday, i sent him so many texts i called him i begged him to reply and he didn’t, i blocked him yesterday and guess what i woke up and saw he texted me somewhere else lmao avoidants are really one of a kind. he hates seeing me giving up on him so he comes back at these moments just to see if i’ll still be there. i will absolutely not reply even though it kills me i don’t give a fuck he needs to understand i’m human with my own feelings and that i don’t deserve to live the mess he’s been putting me through this past year. i’ll ghost him as well then he can understand what it does
Last updated on:2025-10-21T08:25:37+05:30
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My Current Situation, It's Like He Is With Another Female And Avoids Talking To Me For Hours Then Day's Then Weeks And When He Gets Mad At Her Or Them He Starts Txting Me To Hang Out Like Of Nothing Happened. When I Confront Him And Say I Know He Is With The Other Females He Switches It On Me And Constantly Repeats The Same Word's And Then Get's Mad. I Try To Be There For Him To Help Him Stay Clean But I'm So Tired 😫
when he reached out this time, did it feel like he actually missed you or more like he couldn’t handle losing control?
well done, im there with you. cant believe theres so many of them, i just cant 🤦♀️
I relate to that. It's messy. I found peace in the idea that "I can love and do nothing about it, like staring at a river"
from someone who's experienced avoidant, I can tell you are doing the right thing!
you’re doing the right thing by not replying. it’s so painful at first, but that silence? it’s power. let him sit with the loss for once.
Don't give in. I did and ended up wasting 2'years.. and I'm the end it ended in disaster. find someone who won't make you chase them. someone who will call you and spend time with you. who won't leave you wondering.
I am so proud of you
mine used to disappear for days, and the second i finally stopped chasing, boom—he’d crawl back like clockwork. it’s like they only want you when you pull away