How do I stop loving him?

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How do I stop loving him? How do I let go and move on? It’s hard to even picture a future with someone else. I always dreamed of one lasting love the kind that stays through everything where we build a life together grow old side by side raise a family and get married.
But love hasn’t been kind to me. I keep ending up with people who are toxic emotionally distant or only with me to distract themselves from their past. Why does it feel like I’m always the one who gets hurt? Why does love feel so out of reach for me?

Last updated on:2025-10-16T16:49:02+05:30

Comments (4)

siyamno
siyamno 5 mths ago

Now I feel like he doesn’t love me at all. Because if he did, he would have found a way to contact me. But there’s no contact, nothing.

Simnga
Simnga 5 mths ago

I am in love with someone who is too scared to love me again. Just filled with ache, want and need all the time. So sorry youre going through this, you're definitely not alone.

tommato
tommato 5 mths ago

If you figure out how to un love them please let me know.

Nightmare
Nightmare 5 mths ago

You can't unloved someone. But here is my formula Acceptance = detachment. We don't have any choice but to accept and move forward.