"Hi, I hope you are well. I wanted to tell you a few things to bring some peace to this feeling that has been weighing on me for a long time.
I want you to know that I think of you every day. If you are doing well, if you are having a good time. Also, that I love you. Maybe more than is easy for someone to bear, but it's true. What we had was not just a relationship for me, you were a part of me, of my life. We may have agreed that it had to end, but that doesn't make the feelings disappear. I know you felt things, but deep down I feel that you never loved me the way I loved you. And that hurts, but I accept it.
I don't hold any resentment towards you. On the contrary, I will always wish you well, to find the love you deserve, even if I'm not the one.
Know that this is the last time we will speak. Not out of anger, but because the time has come to close this chapter within me.
Thank you for existing, thank you for making me love you. Loving is the most beautiful thing, and you gave me a lot that I will never forget, as well as how real what we experienced was and that it will be hard to find something similar elsewhere. This is what I had to say. Honestly, you don't need to reply anything, and I apologize if I put you in a difficult position, nor should you feel guilty. All this was to get some things off my chest. Goodbye, and never forget that I love you."
Ultimately, he also replied to me in the morning. What was said was that he wouldn't hide it either, that he loves me a lot and thinks of me, but we just can't be together again because many things separate us. However, what confused me was that he said he would like to discuss at some point the point about 'I feel that you never loved me the way I loved you,' but he respects that I want to close the chapter. And that if I ever need anything, his door will be open for me.
Last updated on:2025-10-18T05:57:59+05:30
Comments (9)
that reply from him… do you think part of you wants to keep that door open too, or are you really ready to close it for good?
I am not gonna lie.. part of me believes that he will text me some day..I am delulu I know😂
i think you did the right thing. getting those words out matters, even if the reply leaves you spinning. when someone says “my door’s always open,” it’s usually their way of keeping comfort nearby without real commitment. take his words as warmth, not invitation. you already said goodbye beautifully — now let that stand
Sometimes I think that maybe he wanted to tell me something and I didn't let him, but then I think that if he had wanted to say something, he would have said it.
i sent a message like that to my ex too… the “thank you for existing” part wrecked me because it was the same line i used when i was finally ready to let go. mine also replied saying he still cared, still loved me, but “too much had happened.” it’s weird how closure can still hurt so much.
@Saroka it's hard to take the right decision..but you will always love yourself, and some behaviors doesn't suit you.
what r the things that seperate u? holy f! girl he sounds mature at least from what I know. if he didn't cheat or abuse or harm u, please overcome all the obstacles together!
We spoke different love languages. And when the other person gives you crumbs and you give them a treasure, but they consider the crumb a treasure, that's where the problem lies... plus, they stopped trying for us; they were pulling away.
@WildHug913 fair enough. if he stopped trying... I feel u