He always putting my things first

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We had no contact and again we talked but he just talk to me answer my calls but he has no efforts only i am the one who did all the things afater our no contact ..then again i asked him to go outing with me but his reply was no and said to go with my friends he had a great university life but it turns to me now he is very possesive ..but his time he spend his time with friends and enjoyed well..meanwhile i am upset or not ..now he didn't like to move with my friends at least i cant have male friends or save their numbers ...thats why he is telling go with your friends...we have an argument yesterday for this ..he cant understand why i want to spend time with him instead go with my friends .? I know i lied before for silly reasons just because he become upset .but thats not in my university time..thats jusst about some apps..and some small reasons ..but i didnt cheat him..or micro cheated..🙂he cant understand why i am begging him and choosing over and over him meantime he telling dont love him ....now again he telling see how i live by tommorow i will save alla the girls numbers...😪😔is that the only thing he can say instead of understanding me ? even his efforts were 0 i be with him now two months..cant he understand me ? if he love the correct way how my love will be ?either now i am with a person who give me 0 love..🙂cant he understand ?now he is again ignore my messages ....🙂

Last updated on:2025-10-22T08:24:39+05:30

Comments (6)

Kiilavio21
Kiilavio21 4 mths ago

when he says he doesn’t want you to hang out with friends, is it fear or control? how does that make you feel inside?

Mahee78
Mahee78 4 mths ago

I think its both ..but most of control.because I didnt say anything to him on his time.byt for me he is he dosen't let me do things that he did before ..But I patiently wait that his times..(his college time )But he is not.🙂

Bisscotti
Bisscotti 4 mths ago

you’re giving more than you’re getting 💔 sometimes stepping back and setting boundaries really helps you see the truth of their effort

fearlessG
fearlessG 4 mths ago

i spent months begging for attention while he acted possessive but distant… it HURT so much to feel unseen even while giving everything

WildSun457
WildSun457 5 mths ago

if he doesn’t have interest in you, move on. don’t stay where you are rejected constantly.

Mahee78
Mahee78 4 mths ago

yesss...