what should I do

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I keep on blocking and unblocking him. when I unblock we talk on what's app and so when we end the night like goodnight we will talk tomorrow I will expect him tomorrow to text but when he doesn't I feel awfull and bad like why isn't he texting though we are not together and when he does that I feel like he is destroying my peace and he'll take me back to where I left so I decide and block him then I sleep waking up in the morning I unblock again this is draining what should I do

Last updated on:2025-10-22T04:47:02+05:30

Comments (10)

messmerse
messmerse 4 mths ago

when you unblock him, what do you hope will happen? understanding that might help you figure out your next step without burning yourself out.

hope4life
hope4life 4 mths ago

this back-and-forth is really wearing you down. maybe try a longer no-contact period, even if it feels hard. your peace matters more than the urge to check in.

happy
happy 4 mths ago

that's what I've decided

Breathing
Breathing 4 mths ago

i used to block/unblock my ex for months. it drains you so much, i know that feeling of waking up anxious waiting for a text.

WildSun457
WildSun457 5 mths ago

why are you expecting to treat you like a gf if you are not a couple anymore? you don’t really want to block him. you want him to treat you like before the breakup. you are in charge of your emotions not him. if you are not sure doing no contact don’t do it.

happy
happy 5 mths ago

hard truth

nemesisbird
nemesisbird 5 mths ago

don't block him, just delete his number so you can't message him

happy
happy 5 mths ago

I had done that then I saved him again I think I'll do that

Mahee78
Mahee78 5 mths ago

dont do the same thing again they just need attention to keep u ...blk him..if he has 0 interest to talk to u..focus on journalin in the morning with a coffeee write and decorate your journal ..write about your feelings find ways to decorate ur feelings....instead of unblocking and blocking them..

happy
happy 5 mths ago

thanks I won't unblock him because I've seen he has tried reaching out to me