After 24 days of no contact ( a month and two weeks since we last spoke n argued n he blocked me) and 7 days since he unblocked me on messenger, I sent him this:
"Hey
just wanted to say hi n check on you, I'll step back now n keep on giving us both space.
Have a good weekend! "
Why did I do this? because our last interaction was a very hard argument. I didn't want him to keep on associating me with 'chasing and pressure' and wanted to send him the vibe - the same I had - of like hey, I'm respecting your need now, but I'm also here n I still care.
He didn't see the message yet, but I'm spiraling and scared.. I hope I didn't mess up :((((
Last updated on:2025-10-22T07:39:03+05:30
Comments (8)
what’s your goal if he sees it? just to check in, or hoping for some kind of reply? sometimes clarifying that for yourself helps ease the panic
you didn’t mess up. sometimes sending a small check-in is just your heart trying to be kind. now let it rest—don’t overthink the waiting, it only drains you more
i sent a super careful “hey” after a huge fight too and spent HOURS spiraling waiting for a reply. it sucks but reaching out gently doesn’t make you a pest 💔
Whether he replies or not, move on with the peace of knowing that you tried to reach out and make sure that you guys didn't end things badly
exactly! that is why I left this message, because last time he wanted space and I gave pressure. Only wanted to switch the vibe of this time n space into peace n patience. I am totally fine as long as he doesn't block me or tells me to go away!
I'm fine btw he doesn't have to respond, I only want him to see it :')
has he seen it?
@VibeCore521 not yet! he is still offline been 5 hours. He used to check his phone when we were together only cuz I message him or for tiktoks once in a while. he's online on steam so he's on his pc. crossing fingers he won't block me or tell me to go away or move on :((((( my heart