So my ex came out tonight and was out drinking in my workplace. I was pleasantly and friendly. I feel like im ok with everything now. i've done amazingly with my fitness and mental health.
So when I got home I was messaged by my drunken ex who had previously blocked me.
She said she had been forced to block me. She had apparently got into another relationship less than a week after she broke up with me, and he turned out to be controlling and toxic. She kept apologising to me.
Despite these apologies from my drunken ex one fact remains the same and not easily forgiven. The fact that she still left me to get with someone else.
My ex has suggested going for a walk etc.
while I empathise with her pain, it isn't right is it. I deserve better than to be treated like nothing and discarded.
She claims he controlled her and nothing was my fault all hers.
Last updated on:2025-10-21T20:02:02+05:30
Comments (5)
sounds like you’ve done a lot of work on yourself 💪 even if she’s apologizing now, your feelings are valid. staying firm on your boundaries is okay.
i’ve been there 😞 my ex blocked me too after moving on fast… it took me months to stop feeling like i wasn’t enough. you’re not alone in feeling hurt
and honestly it isn’t right. if u do go back you will destroy most of the work you have done on yourself trust me I have been there. getting with someone a week after breaking up and blocking u is another level of mental abuse. from experience going back just to get treated them same is worst cause u hate yourself for losing all your progress restating the no contact is brutal
how long have u guys been broken up and did u maintain no contact?
I maintained no contact for almost 3 months. This is a very confusing time. i'm not going to contact her. She messaged me when she was drunk anyways and probably won't again