If we were still together, we were going to celebrate 10 months today.
Happy 10 months.. I miss you. I'm sorry. I still love you. I know you miss me, I know you still love me, I hope you will see that leaving the relationship you fought your family n friends for isn't the road to happiness. I hope once you heal, you remember the caring loving fun girl I was to you.
I miss you..
Last updated on:2025-10-21T19:51:03+05:30
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anniversaries after a breakup always sting. it helps a little when you let yourself feel it, not fight it. say what you’d want to say (even if it’s just here), then do something small that’s just for you today. you still matter outside that love.
i remember texting “happy anniversary” in my notes app after my breakup too, like somehow they’d feel it through the air. i missed him so bad it physically hurt. i get what you’re saying — that hope that once they heal, they’ll remember who you were.
girllll we are literally in the same situation he just told me he needs to work on himself and we can do it after three years personally I'm willing to wait so long as he fulfils his promise
at first I was begging I used to judge girls who lost their self respect for men until I actually did it and he was like telling me to stop he's not changing his mind on the whole thing I kept on calling him he never picked sent a thousand texts only for him to reply with no I think it's because it was so hard to process it at first but he was super gentle said he'd want to remain friends so that he can look after me cause I'm too vulnerable and doest want other men to hurt me . we've agreed to break up and try it again later . I just hope it works . rn we are still talking...once in a while though but I'd say it's helping with my healing because we are somehow on the same page
it will get better for you too I promise it doesn't have to make sense rn but with the right one , you will feel it hugs 🫂
ikr one minute I'm doing okay the next minute I think of our memories and I crash out I am still trying to maintain bo contact we decided to go for one month on a break up and see how it goes he said he doesn't want to date me anymore and that feelings change he's not so sure whether he will be back honestly I'm hoping he comes back but idk I doubt he will and it just feels so pathetic 😭he said he's okay with us being friends and talking but I think it will delay my healing should I just be friends with him only saying hi only and goodnight I don't know what to do think feel or how to act anymore please tell me it's gonna be okay
I feel like he had changed though for the past year and I was in love with the idea of him and whi he was before not who he has turned out to be worse still I still want to be with him
damnnnnn this should be so hard... girl don't accept the friends thing trust me it's hard. it's impossible. mine broke up with me because he was emotionally overwhelmed after having arguments with me, he said he doesn't wanna be in a relationship now and can't handle it. he didn't agree on a break but said he'll never close the door to us getting back together it's just that now he wants to be alone, n asked me to give him space n no pressure, yet I pressured him so much we ended up arguing n he blocked me. simce then he unblocked messenger only, I left him a hi how u doing just checking n I'll step back kinda message, but it's on sent n not delivered yet. I am like you, I loved n love him ao much, he didn't change but he got tired n was carrying traumas. But I wanted to be together while I help him n we work things together, however I was relying on him much last month or two so he felt that he needed to focus on himself alone. But he said he still care for me, and he still loves me. girll it sucks I get you, I really hope for the best for us.
@Saroka we were also in the argument stage argued after two days and it was over petty things I think that was one of the reasons why he left I begged for him to stay because at the time I believed that if he loved me. we could actually grow together but I figured out maybe time apart is actually better idk don't worry they always come back after weeks months or even years but they always come back at first they'll feel relief just maintain no contact with him the more you chase him the more you push him away your silence will make him realize what he lost. I hope you get him back after he works on himself 😉
I'm in the same situation and I just want to cry my ass out does it get any better?
he broke up with me on 3rd of September. it gets better but, some days u feel that you're just stuck again..