Yes! he messaged me on my second tiktok, apologized many times for everything from the bottom of his heart. He wasn't offering to redo the relationship, the opposite, he gave clear intentions that he's not messaging to jump back into my life but because this has been weighing on him and he felt really bad. he agreed and unblocked me except on Discord, saying he's not fully ready to see me everywhere. I offered to call but he said not tonight (it was late alr) maybe if it was another night. He was his usual self, nice, kind, vulnerable: he admitted he had lots of downs, trouble sleeping etc.. he shared some small success with me, joked around a bit. But overall he gave signs of ' I still need time and space ' n I showed maturity n patience.
He showed that he cares saying stuff like if I really need him he's ready to listen to me tonight, n showing empathy etc.. but still in shutdown n thinking bout everything mode.
What dyall think? btw I told him I'll keep giving us space, n that I'm not offering friendship, n sometimes hinted that m still angry with him, n he stated that he doesn't ask me for anything now, that he understands and that he didn't message because he's desperate n wants me back.
How do yall see this?
Last updated on:2025-10-20T23:49:02+05:30
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my trust is so broken I would think that’s another game and he just wants me to keep me as an option.
he wants to keep me as an option *
I dunno.. it didn't feel like that but also didn't feel like he wanted to try again
@Saroka I understand. I’m here now too. he sent a massive text apologising but also saying “this is not to get you back”.. to me, it’s just another game.
if they wanted to try again, they would.
I would be so happy in your place. but taking things slow.
I wish my ex did the same. but his pride and resentment won’t let him come to me.
m proud of him, I told him that. I'm happy, I will take it slow n see what the future holds. I pray to god he will want me back, n not keep on thinking he's better off alone.
also it took him a month exactly, so please be patient:(((
why can't my ex be like this I love that man so much😭but he don't love me no more
I honestly m proud of him n I told him. it's so mature of him, at 19.
But like m just scared he might not wanna try again or if he lost feelings (which I doubt) or if he thinks he'd better off alone :((
@Saroka but had got another girlfriend two days after we broke up and my friends keep telling me he just told me that to make me move on but that's not helping it's just making me want him more 😞