He broke no contact two days ago. He apologized and took responsibility of how the relationship ended and hurting me etc.. (it felt sincere) I apologized as well and he's aware all is his fault, he unblocked me, addede back, still said he isn't ready to unblock me from all the apps as he's not ready to see me pop up everywhere yet. I was understanding, he said he had trouble sleeping, lots of downs, but he's been a bit better. He's been thinking alot about us. I drew some boundaries saying we can't be friends, I told him I also did the same but I think it's for the best we give each other the space and time we need. He responded by saying that the reason he messaged wasn't because he's desperate and want me back or wants to jump back into my life. He acknowledged that I'm still angry and it's fine. ngl deep inside I really want him back, he gave signs he still care and love me (he's avoiding reminders of me) and was joking around a bit and kind. What should my next steps be? I avoided talking about us because it felt early n he felt not ready yet.
Last updated on:2025-10-23T18:01:57+05:30
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do you feel like hearing from him helped you heal or just reopened old feelings? sometimes that answer says a lot about what you should do next.
I'm not gonna lie, heal a little but I already was wondering if he'll want to try again n this just brought is again.
don’t rush to read too much into his words right now. let his actions over time show you what’s real. i’ve learned that when someone’s truly ready, they won’t keep you half-blocked
Yea I could tell he's not fully ready, it's more of like making sure we're done on good terms and letting the door be cracked open.
I really hope that his actions are true, so you don't have to go through all that again!
my ex did the same — reached out after months, took full blame, acted like he’d grown. i wanted to believe him so bad. that “not ready to see you everywhere yet” line hit me too. it’s confusing as hell.
after a month exactly here.. he didn't act like he'd grown, yes he took full responsibilities but he clearly needs more time to heal from what made us break down