It's actually my fault for not taking the initiative to call, chat about activities, send photos 1 year in our relationship, and instead trying harder to meet up rather than chatting regularly because it didn't occur to me that even though she didn't express her feelings, I should have been more sensitive. she feels like she didn't have a role during our relationship, but believe me, I truly love her and care about her more than anything else. If I change, will she see me again? Is it okay if I keep trying? she has other person in mind, not dating yet but still it hurts so bad. i thought i do good but i'm just really dumb about this thing (my first time). please i really love her
Last updated on:2025-10-22T12:30:04+05:30
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when you say she has someone else in mind… do you think trying again right now would help you heal, or just keep you stuck in the same pain?
it’s okay to love her, but don’t make “changing” just about getting her back. change because you want to grow, because you’ll carry that growth into every love after this one
my first relationship ended kinda like that too — i thought showing up in person mattered more than the constant texts. but she needed emotional presence more than physical. it broke me when i realized it too late
do i really need an experience before being in a relationship. this thing is complicated for me (im 20 btw)
this other guy is as smart as me even tho we have different specialty, and she said he is kind like me. but she got what she couldnt find with me. im way taller tho. i can change please give me a chance 💀