I miss him badly. the last text was mine we agreed to be friends but needed some space to adjust to the fact that we can't date for now I want to ask him if this silence is killing him like it's killing me and why isn't he texting me damn imma cry I swear I'll text him
what do I do men what goes on in your mind during NC
Last updated on:2025-10-24T00:09:25+05:30
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i’ve been there. that silence feels like it’s physically loud, right? i remember staring at my phone wondering if he was struggling too or just... fine. that uncertainty hurts the most
heavy on the physically loud ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
that's the hardest part 🤣 he already sees how desperate I am
babe you are on day 1 and me on month 5 and I feel the same. healing is linear. if he is not contacting, you shouldn't care either. take care of yourself
okay I gotta put me first actually I saw a comment on TikTok and I liked it it says " I can't afford to lose myself I don't have a twin"🌸
saddest part is that I've begged him to stay for more than five times at times we used to disagree and he would say he is breaking up I begged him to stay and he did. I lost my self respect for him worse still before the no contact I kept on begging and he blocked me for a few minutes cause of my many texts and calls that he ignored but I couldn't back down. I need help where's my self respect at
You're on day 1 which is hard....what helped me was reminding myself why we were on no contact, listing all the bad in the relationship, surrounding myself with content that helped what I was trying to achieve. Allowing yourself to feel and cry helps coz letting it out better than ignoring.
okay I'm trying to distract myself with crotchet and all but I can't help it I just feel like asking him to come back to me which is wild ik 😠this is harder than I thought I'll try not to text him
@lilzy I know exactly how you feel
try looking for new hobbies that you can do and anytime you wanna talk to them write it down on your notes
@kokky thanks
@lilzy text yourself or write a letter of all the things you would wanna say but don't send it. The idea is for him to not know or see how you feeling.
If you are talking or texting to him, don't let him see that you are desperate because of him. If you sent desperate texts he will feel superior and thinks he has the control. Don't let somebody takes your heart and throw it away. (easy to say for me, I'm heartbroken too lol)