So I had a break up 2 months ago.I can't tell her real name so for now let's call her Nivedika.I and Nivedika had a 9 months long relationship and then her ex came and she left me for him but then she reminded all my small mistakes and I felt that she left me beacuse of my mistakes.But I don't know I right or I am wrong.Can anyone insist me with this?
Last updated on:2025-10-23T15:02:41+05:30
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when you look back at those “mistakes” she mentioned… do they feel like things you actually regret, or things she exaggerated to justify leaving?
she exaggerated to justify leaving us
when someone leaves for their ex, it’s rarely about your mistakes. it’s about their unresolved stuff. don’t let guilt rewrite the story. focus on what you learned instead of what you “did wrong
I think you are right
my ex did the same thing — went back to her ex and made it sound like it was all my fault. i spent months replaying every moment trying to “figure out” what i did wrong. truth is, she’d already made her choice.
but I can't accept that
shes just manipulating you so she wont come out as toxic for leaving you, from what youre saying i think shes in the wrong cause when your in a relationship no matter whats going on going back to your ex is really wrong and toxic
yes but still she doesn't even care about me
why do we have the same experience??
I don't know bro
Hello GiddyUp, I think, your ex did never forget her ex and had him in his mind. I think you were her rebound. What was the last text she has sent to you?
at last we had a argument and she said "everyone thinks I am mad" so I just said "good bye" and she said "bye* that's it
@Advick21 I think now she is glad that you accepted her decision and she doesn't have to discuss with you anymore. I hope you are fine and can accept this situation. heartbreak is the worst