Did i deserve this?

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We tried something in the summer, but it fell apart because he was suffering from his ex-girlfriend. He came back after a month with the story that he got over it and now wants to try with me, after that we tried something for a month and a half. He told me when we met that he wanted something with me, and when I came home I received a message that he didn't want anything after all, that I wasn't worthy of love, that he knew he didn't make a mistake the first time he left.

Last updated on:2025-10-23T03:02:08+05:30

Comments (6)

Neverhurt
Neverhurt 4 mths ago

do you think he ever truly healed from his last relationship before trying again with you? sometimes their unresolved stuff spills all over us.

msvlpq
msvlpq 4 mths ago

it's been nine months since his breakup, I kind of hoped that he'd solved some things on his own, but he didn't. I don't know why he hurt me when he knew he couldn't stand it and couldn't be with me

Kaimkarm
Kaimkarm 4 mths ago

when someone says things that cruel, itโ€™s never really about your worth. itโ€™s about their damage. try not to let his confusion define how you see yourself, even if it still stings

msvlpq
msvlpq 4 mths ago

but those words are etched deep in your memory, you can't just forget them or let them go

fearlessG
fearlessG 4 mths ago

i went through something similar โ€” he said he was ready, made me believe it, then pulled away again when things got real. that kind of rejection just wrecks your self-worth for a while ๐Ÿ’”

msvlpq
msvlpq 4 mths ago

literally, those words do a lot of damage to your self-confidence