After 44 days of no contact and blocked on all platforms for like 35 days . she unblocked then viewed my tiktok 3 times and liked 1 video I didn't bite.. and today she sent a text message of a video of her kids 1st hockey practice. knowing I was so excited for my little buddy to play.... I've watched it but didn't message back. be strong 💪and yes I did tell me new gf 1ST thing when it happened...
Last updated on:2025-10-23T05:29:02+05:30
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you handled it perfectly. no reply, no reaction, just awareness. that’s what “healing in progress” looks like 💪 even if it still stings a bit.
my ex did the same thing after weeks of silence — reached out with something “innocent” she knew would tug at me. it messed with my head for days 😮💨 stay strong man.
soo proud of u good job i know it’s not easy not to respond
When They See You Doing Good Is When They Try To Brake You Down Again You Did Good Keep It Up
yea ... soon as I started talking to the new GF somehow the ex knew and that's when she unblocked me.. idk how they just know
if she reached out fully would u leave ur new gf?
nope.. new GF does all the things I wish the ex did
that's so brave of you, i hope you would always prioritize yourself.
well done. it is my first day today of No contact. I hope it does get easier.
its doesn't for a while even now after months and having someone else ... my heart raced like a horse at the Kentucky derby... I had to call my now gf to calm me down.. wasnt a true reach out just a bread crumb.......