it's been 5 days with no contact, And I feel
free. I don't have to constantly check their page to make sure that they're mine, I don't have to have the gut wrenching feeling in my heart if they make a post about someone else, I don't have to deal with the inconsistent feelings that they have for me. I don't have to hear them say they love me in the next minute they say they like someone else. I wish I would've stand my ground the other times I cut them off, but I would always come running back hoping we would get together again, Never did. So now I know that we're not meant to be and I will find my person, and so will you. Go back as much as you want, unblock them, text them, until after a while it leaves and when you're done, you're done for good.
Last updated on:2025-10-30T05:04:05+05:30
Comments (10)
how are you keeping yourself busy during these days? sometimes the little distractions really help solidify that freedom feeling.
doing school work, playing games with my friends, playing on my computer on my own, and when the thoughts come I just think about them for a bit and then move on.
five days in and feeling free is huge. hold onto that feeling — it’s proof you can survive this and actually start healing
thank you, I do have hope this time.
i kept checking his socials for months after we broke up. going no contact felt like ripping off a bandaid but also the most freeing thing ever
I get it, It can be hard at first to let go because you love them so much but sometimes love is just not enough. You can love someone and know they're not good for you and you deserve better baby
I am so proud of you
thank you so much
what did u do to move on this fast?
I want this.
honestly , how I moved on so fast is because I kept going back, that's terrible advice but I don't know how to move on so quick any other way because I have a huge heart and when I'm attached I'm ATTACHED. so I say I went back a few times, and then they kept disappointing me so many times. After a while I got tired of it and then blocked them and was done.