So my ex reached out after 84 days after going out where I work. With drunken apologies after drunken apologies.
I was nice but firm. Since then she has not because I guess because she is sober. I refuse to reach out to her but I keep thinking she will one day show up or message. She totally a dissmissive avoidant style attachment. I dont want her back after what she did but im an idiot who cares about her well being. This is ridiculous.
Last updated on:2025-10-24T04:33:02+05:30
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do you notice if thinking about her is more about missing her, or missing the idea of her? sometimes that helps me untangle my feelings.
i’ve learned it helps to remind myself that her apologies don’t erase the past. focusing on my boundaries and self-care keeps me from getting sucked back in
my ex ghosted me for weeks, then suddenly reached out all sappy. i cared too, even when i knew i shouldn’t. it hurts thinking they’ll just show up one day.