Our relationship was more than 5+ years & even before that 3 years we were core bestfriends. Like in short we were so attached that we used to chat for 8 years daily...... & few days ago she defended other guy in front of me .... he said me creep & I'm gaslighting her .... & she accepted it !
though she have broke up in April only but I had a faith that we could get together it's just a phase so I was still trying even after April .... but few days ago just broke me apart.....
I don't know what to do, whenever I catch her online..... it stings me that she might be chatting with him .... how easily I got replaced.... & I'm not even saying this April to October.. even in this month's we were like a couple breakup was just for name .... & suddenly few days ago this happened
Last updated on:2025-10-25T01:29:40+05:30
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when you say “a couple breakup was just for name,” do you think part of you was still clinging to the idea of getting back together?
I'll be honest "Yes", I was like this is a relationship break-up & patchup is usual when 2 persons actually love each other they find their way back..... so I was hoping ki we'll find our way back she'll come back to me only talking abt her day .....
but since the day she defended the other guy .... I lost it
it’s brutal feeling replaced so quickly, i get that. i found that stepping back from social media and no-contact helped me breathe and slowly let go. 💔
my ex and i were best friends for years before dating, and seeing her talk to someone else just tore me apart. it HURT like hell.