We talked about rules before having sex. He doesn't want me to feel bad and we agreed that we tell eachother that we should stop the sex when we get feelings for other people. The thing is he is all I want and there is nobody else I can imagine in my future and it kills me to wait for him to find somebody else. Why am I so weak.
Last updated on:2025-10-27T16:11:49+05:30
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have you told him that it’s not just the sex but him you actually want?
You're not weak, we've all been there, but it would be better for you to leave now, it's only getting more complicated if you stay
well don't feel bad, it's okay you're human. it's okay for humans to have setback sometimes
do you think he knows how deep your feelings actually go? or are you trying to hide it to keep the “no‑feelings” rule alive?
I hope I am hiding il but he knows me very well. I'm not sure.
you’re not weak. you’re human. the moment it starts feeling one‑sided, it might help to ask yourself if waiting for him is actually giving you peace or just prolonging the ache
we set “rules” too, trying to protect ourselves, but i still ended up catching feelings first. it’s like you agree to something with your head but your heart never signs the same deal
This 💔