I'm over the person but loneliness. My head tells me I need to learn to be happy on my own but my heart wants somebody, somebody to give me a reason to keep going. I don't want to do that. I've wasted too much time trying my hardest to be loved but never proud of myself
Last updated on:2025-10-25T19:56:00+05:30
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do you think it’s the loneliness itself that’s hurting the most, or the feeling of not being seen by someone anymore?
both
it’s okay to want love, even while learning to be okay alone. i used to think i had to pick one, but both can exist at the same time. just don’t forget to keep showing up for yourself too.
I have learned that we put our happiness and wellbeing in the hands of another person, that’s why we get so attached. but in reality all those good feelings they are already inside of us. they come from inside to the outside. if you don’t feel proud of yourself, work on that first and then people who is ready to love will come.
when i finally stopped missing him but still missed being loved. that ache stays for a while. i used to stare at my phone hoping someone would care again. you’re not crazy for feeling that.
Don't worry!! Focus on your journey, our life isn't for somebody but for our own personal happiness!! I understand your situation as I been through the same but once you realize your worth and start engaging in the things which makes u happy, you'll never look back!!✨ Hope you achieve 📈