I am in a state of confusion phase...
where i miss him a lot but I dont want to text him because there is no point.
I also can't get him back, since he doesn't to be with me.
It was me who pushed for the break up since he said he doesnt see long term with me but his actions felt like he did see me in the long term.
I feel its for the best, that i know God saved me from longer heart break but then I also feel like could I have changed things if I handled it well?
I am in that phase...my heart is at pain but I also have to leave it to God for the repair.
Last updated on:2025-10-27T11:30:04+05:30
Comments (7)
have you tried writing down what you’d say to him if you could, just for yourself? sometimes it helps untangle the heart a little
Same. The weekends are harder for me. Too much free time to dwell.
it’s okay to feel torn. focus on small daily things for yourself, journaling or short walks helped me during the “what if” spiral. give yourself patience
i pushed my ex away too even though a part of me wanted to stay. that confusing mix of relief and heartbreak hits hard. hang in there
i feel the exact same way i’m so sorry you feel like this too!
"waiting is done only for someone who had said that he will comeback" is well put.
Well I'm also facing the same thing that you said ...
So I can understand what might be that feeling... I'll really suggest you to WAIT .. I don't know why even I'm waiting for everything to get back right again ...He told me and even promised me in my name that he will never return and it's just time waste to think of the future because ain't no chance of us being together happy in the future due to many reasons.. I know he is doing all these so I could be happy with someone else ..But he didn't knew the person with whom I want to become happy is ‘him’..
He cleared that everything is done between us but I'm still waiting for him to message.. because My mind will never agree to the point of move on ...So I've to use alternative words to actually
"move on" ...
See .. It's already 8 days you faced like this ... I'll suggest you to wait but remember ,,,,,,
Waiting is done only for someone who had said that he will comeback !
Move On is the best possible solution but Giving time to heal will automatically make you move on from him.