I messaged him even though I'm blocked.

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I don't know why , but this NC I'm doing so that in this time we both can enjoy our personal time being apart from eachother. Maybe we can think about our problems and can make up new solutions.. Basically I thought this NC will give "space" to eachother to rebuild our relationship !
But I caught myself falling for him deeply now,I had a problem of "forgetting which results in forgiving" therefore I make up my mind to be in love rather than to actually move on and forget him .
I'm not sure whether he will come back or not..still I messaged him even though I'm blocked.
I'm not sure what will happen in the future. It's Day 3 but as he promised earlier that he will never comeback so I'm little afraid.

Last updated on:2025-10-27T21:45:58+05:30

Comments (5)

PairMe
PairMe 4 mths ago

have you thought about what you need right now, separate from him? sometimes that clarity changes how you approach the NC

Neverhurt
Neverhurt 4 mths ago

taking time apart can help, but try to focus on yourself first. journaling or small daily routines helped me survive the uncertainty. it doesn’t fix things overnight, but it builds strength.

Rajasree
Rajasree 4 mths ago

You are Absolutely Right..I followed that too

unknownPP
unknownPP 4 mths ago

i tried NC thinking it’d give us space too, but all it did was make me fall harder. it’s rough when your heart doesn’t follow your plan

Rajasree
Rajasree 4 mths ago

Bro what happened after that ?? Did he never approached you thereafter??