It's been 6 days since he sincerely apologized for everything and unblocked me (on fb n insta, he said he isn't ready to unblock me everywhere) he took full responsibilities and knows that the breakup n everything was because of him. But we didn't talk on phone, or didn't talk that much enough to see where this is going. He was nice and also open to how he's been and didn't try to fake 'im fine'. I said I'm still a little angry which I am, and he said he's not contacting me now outta desperation but because he's truly sorry. Now I really know he's still emotionally exhausted (the reason why he left) but I been holding myself from contacting him as I said 'I also have been thinking of us and what went wrong like u, but let's keep this full space for now'. I wanna message him to talk and understand what he thinks now that he reflected etc, like understand each other better n talk about a possible us in the future, or simply letting him know that I still love him n care for him n I'm waiting to rebuild things when he's ready. But I keep on panicking.. what if I mess up? what if he pushes me away? but if m silent what if he thinks m moving on n he does too?
Last updated on:2025-10-27T11:34:02+05:30
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have you thought about what your goal is if you do reach out? like clarity, or just sharing feelings? it might help calm the panic a bit.
maybe take a deep breath before messaging. writing down what you want to say first helped me stop panicking and be clear without overthinking.
omg i’ve been there 😭 my ex apologized after months and i was so torn between waiting and reaching out. the panic you feel? totally normal, it’s love and fear tangled up
advise me :((