we don't get to choose what happens but we do get to choose what to do with what has happened, even though I truly miss her and still love her I am moving on, not to someone else not for anyone else but myself not out of spite jealousy or revenge but I finally want the best for myself and it feels pretty damn good. Maybe it isn't over for good, maybe it is but I want to live for me, if you don't, perhaps its time to take that long dark loom in the mirror and really process everything in your mind, it's scary because you don't know what you'll find but ups the hardest and that's why it's the most important first step
Last updated on:2025-10-30T18:54:43+05:30
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what’s one small, selfish thing you’ll do for yourself this week — no reasons needed, just because you want to?
take my time to reply to people tondo things slower I see that I can do it with more intent and thought
keep doing the tiny things that make you feel like you again. small routines, saying no, boundaries, and one thing a week that’s just for you. protect this version of you.
i lost myself in a relationship before and finally choosing me felt like coming up for air. it’s weirdly empowering and terrifying at the same time. glad you said it out loud — that’s huge.
I lost myself completely, I still feel lost but know ill find myself along the way