I really need advice. I’ve been completely infatuated with this guy in my study hall since August. He’s quiet always has his headphones in and we’ve only spoken a few times but everything I’ve learned about him makes him feel like my dream guy. I think about him constantly.
Lately I’ve been trying to talk to him more and it’s kind of working. But recently he’s been posting all these romantic notes on Instagram about how badly he wants someone. And I’m almost certain he’s not talking about me. It hurts. I know it might sound silly to be this caught up in someone I barely know but he checks every box for me. I don’t know how to stop feeling this way. I feel jealous of whoever he likes and honestly it’s heartbreaking to think the one guy who fits everything I’ve ever wanted might end up with someone else.
Just to give some context the first thing that drew me to him was how well he dresses especially for a teenage guy. That really stood out to me. Then I found out he’s in debate which made me think he was smart. I’ve seen him in action and even had a few conversations with him and our teacher about deeper topics and I was right. He’s incredibly intelligent more than any other guy I’ve met. He’s also Christian and his music taste is amazing.
I just don’t know how to let go of this feeling. Any advice would mean a lot.
Last updated on:2025-10-27T16:24:03+05:30
Comments (3)
Move on. He isn’t your dream guy. You just put him on a pedestal and you want him to pick you, so they are hyper-focused on him.
hey think about ur self ur happiness.
Try to focus on yourself, your hobbies. There will be others, maybe even better prospective partners. Nurture what you have instead of pining after what you don't.