she contacted me on messenger asking if I have anymore of her things that she forgot. I have not answered and not physically opened the message. she stresses me out I don’t know what to do.
Last updated on:2025-10-29T15:28:59+05:30
she contacted me
she contacted me on messenger asking if I have anymore of her things that she forgot. I have not answered and not physically opened the message. she stresses me out I don’t know what to do.
Last updated on:2025-10-29T15:28:59+05:30
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do you think she reached out just for her stuff, or does it feel like there’s more behind that message?
I honestly don’t know… she is very protective of her things. but it have been over 2 months and she is checking what she is missing now? she have also sent the same message now on sms.
if seeing her name pop up triggers that stress, it’s okay to not reply right now. maybe check the message later when you’re calmer or ask someone else to handle returning her stuff. protecting your peace matters more than any forgotten item.
my ex used to randomly message me about some “leftover hoodie” just when i was finally starting to feel okay. it messed with my head every time. i get why you haven’t opened it — sometimes silence is the only peace you’ve got left.
ignore her is she stresses you out. just focus on yourself. prioritize yourself and do not even reply to her, she is just trying to mess with your brain.
I get it man it's hard but I've a saying we were born without them then we can be okay without them cringe but hope it helps
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iam current going through my low of the lowest. diagnosed with stress being tested for depression. therapist and counsellor. I have been off 2 weeks from work and now I work 50% for 2 week. the thing is we work at the same place. we never see each other but still. it’s so hard