we broke up 8 days ago and I go between feeling fine and not being able to stop crying. I'm in bed and about to put on his sweater. I have a matching stuffed animal with him that I've been carrying around with me everywhere. I'm not gonna see him for a long time and I don't want it to be like that.
Last updated on:2025-10-31T10:04:54+05:30
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when you say you won’t see him for a long time… is it because of distance, or was that a boundary you both set after the breakup?
I don't know if he wants to see me and I'm too scared to ask. he said he wants to reconnect eventually after we've both healed, but until then I don't know if we'll talk. idk if I could be just friends with him. he's the love of my life
wear the sweater if it comforts you. i did the same. after a while, i slowly stopped reaching for it as much. don’t rush that moment — it happens on its own.
what if the feeling never comes though? I've never loved someone like this I don't wanna love anyone else
i used to wear his hoodie every night and sleep with the dumb plush he won me at a fair. it’s like your body misses their presence even when your mind knows they’re gone. it’s such a weird ache
it's horrible. I sleep with a weighted blanket and the heating pad on my back so that it feels like he's holding me. it's the only way I can get myself to fall asleep